Wear a mask and don’t be a douche bag.

Wear a mask and don’t be a douche bag.

There’s no argument that the world we live in now with the COVID-19 pandemic has completely shaken up everyone’s day-to-day lives. Schools have been canceled. Sports have been canceled. Concerts have been canceled. Work, for most people, has either been canceled or those who aren’t used to working remotely are now being forced to adopt a life like those of us who have been “working from home” as “mobile offices” or “digital nomads” for years. It hasn’t been easy for most people. Even Walt Disney World is shut down until further notice, which has never happened in the history of Disney.

It’s safe to say that none of us can ever remember anything like this “new normal.” Even Y2K, for as weird as it was, was only a false perception that come 1999 turning to 2000, “the robots would take over.”

Well, the good news is that at the turn of the century, we woke up on 1 January 2000 and nothing changed.

No, the robots did not take over in Y2K.

Fast forward twenty years.

Oddly enough, in many (most?) ways, the robots have taken over. And somehow, we as a society have learned to not only adapt and accept, but downright welcome our robot overlords. We talk to Siri and Alexa all the time. We let Amazon, Google, Bixby, and other AI listen in on just about everything we do.

I’m not sure if George Orwell would be proud or ashamed that his prophecy came true, albeit 36 years later than predicted.

However, it is the year 2020 and we have much bigger problems than dealing with “robot overlords.” People are dying by the hundred-thousands worldwide (at the time of this publishing), from a mysterious illness that humanity has never seen before. It’s horrifying, difficult to deal with on a personal level, and difficult to control from a governmental standpoint. Entire countries (such as Italy) have put themselves in quarantine, with mixed results. Here in the United States, there are daily reports of those infected and those who’ve passed — by state, by county, by city. Our governments, from local to federal, are sending mixed messages to the citizens not by their own fault, but because information changes by the second.

Everyone can only do so much. And everyone is doing what they can to get by, to survive this surrealistic reality we are now living in.

Strangely, the government is feeling the need to tell us to do things like “wash your hands,” keep your place clean, especially your bathroom, “don’t share eating utensils with others,” “sneeze and/or cough into your armpit if you need to,” etc. . . which are things that honestly? People should know and do anyway.

Source: www.cdc.gov

That said, there is now the issue of wearing masks.

The CDC encourages (but as of this publishing, does not technically require, although certain places do) everyone to wear a mask to prevent the spread of COVID-19. Here’s their stance:

Okay. Got it.

Yet, there are still people who do not wear masks. Either they refuse to, they think they’re an exception to the rule, they think COVID-19 is “not as big of a deal as the media portrays,” or whatever. People have their reasons.

And yet, I continuously see people post things like this on Facebook and other social media platforms:

I got news for you:

While yes, it’s important to wear a mask for multiple reasons (and there is no doubt), the fact is that people who don’t wear one simply won’t. No matter what you say.


Because there’s this thing called “confirmation bias.”

It’s Psychology 101: The more you tell someone something that conflicts with their beliefs, the stronger they’ll hold onto their beliefs.

Nobody (and I mean nobody) is going to change their mind because of a meme they saw you post on Facebook.

Sucks, but that’s just how our human, convoluted minds work.

Social media, in and of itself, has for years functioned as a “sounding board” and “echo chamber” of people’s thoughts and feelings. Regardless of platform, that will never change. (This is why I must reiterate that Text on Fire does not “do” social media.)

I see too much energy being expended on various platforms of people wanting to be heard, whether it’s about wearing a mask, about a political stance, etc. . . but the fact is something I’ve always contended:

Opinions are like assholes. Everybody’s got one. Some are full of shit, others aren’t. But NOBODY CARES about anyone’s but their own.

I basically feel the same way about religion: I don’t care what you believe, so long as you don’t shove it down my (or anyone else’s) throat, and so long as you don’t hurt anyone. Whatever works for you, man. Just respect other people’s beliefs (or non beliefs.)

That said, I do digress.


They’re a good thing, indubitably.

However, some folks don’t wear them.

Please, just understand that no matter how many memes you post on Facebook that express your beliefs about them, those who don’t wear them, are NOT going to just because they saw something anyone posted on the internet. (“If it’s on the internet, it MUST BE TRUE!!” mentality.)

So, what’s a person to do?

Simply accept that some people are douche bags, and LOOK THE OTHER WAY. Both literally and figuratively.

There’s nothing more one can do.

if you wear a mask, congratulations for being socially conscious and looking out for everyone else. But seriously . . . you can’t change the minds of those whose minds don’t (or won’t) be changed. That’s just the way things are, that’s just the way it is.

Look the other way.

Keep your 6′ distance.

“Pity da fools” who don’t listen to common sense.

And keep on keepin’ on.

“They” say (and who are “they,” anyway?) “we’re all in this together,” and I kind of disagree. But . . . that’s just my asshole opinion talking and an entirely different blog post for another time.

But the bottom line is this: Do what you gotta. Feel your feels. But accept that some folks are just assholes, and save your energy for something much more worthy of it.

A couple of new places to find my byline

A couple of new places to find my byline

Alice in Chains feature on Shutter 16

No, I haven’t updated this blog in a while. But unlike my past couple-few (that’s a word where I come from) blogs, I’m not going to make apologies about that kind of thing. In fact, I’ve got something in the works that addresses just that — blogs, blogging, whether it’s still relevant, and whether the old/conventional blogging wisdom still rings true. But that’s in the hopper, to come whenever I finish it and feel like posting it. 

This is a post to make a couple of announcements. Most of the writing I do is without a byline because it’s content for companies or other people to use. But I’m writing with a byline in a couple of places again, so I thought I’d let you know where to look for me. (There will be more in the future.)

‘Zines are back, baby!

First, I’m honored to say that I was approached by the fabulous Kiki L’Italien and asked to be a contributing columnist to the new Association Chat ‘zine, which will be making its debut in the next month. It will be in good old-fashioned print and also have an online component to it. My background is more in chambers of commerce than associations, per se, but that apparently doesn’t matter. Still member organizations. But even if I didn’t have that background, it’s not a prerequisite for being a writer for the ‘zine. Kiki seems to think I have some words worth contributing, so I’m more than happy to be a part of such an exciting new project.

Dusting off the old music journalist hat

Screenshot of Cowboy Junkies show feature

What seems like a million years ago, I was a music journalist. I wrote a lot about music before the internet really took off, then when the internet as we know it was still rather nascent, and then off and on since then. I never had Rolling Stone aspirations or anything, it was just something I enjoyed doing. 

Writing about music is something I have always loved, and I missed it terribly. Recently I had the opportunity to join the staff of Shutter 16 Magazine, which is (as they state on their site) a “. . . collaboration of many enthusiastic and dedicated music journalists with a passion for the lens or written word.”  My first two stories have already been featured — the most recent being a review of the recent Alice in Chains concert at the Eagles Ballroom here in Milwaukee, and my first being a review of the Cowboy Junkies show at Turner Hall, complete with an on-the-fly video interview of vocalist Margo Timmins.  

I am a writer, not a photographer, but thankfully I have two other members of the Milwaukee team who are photographers and their amazing work is featured along with my writing in these articles. Brooke Billick was my photographer for Cowboy Junkies, and Lee Ann Flynn took the shots for Alice in Chains. I look forward to covering more shows with them in the future. 

That said, I know there’s no way I can find all of the music-related things I wrote from way back in the day, but I was able to find a few things I had saved in .xml files from old blogs and elsewhere I contributed, so I threw them up on a music archives subdomain, just for posterity’s sake. Peruse at your leisure, but know that there are a ton of broken/outdated links, missing photos, etc. that I’m not even going to bother fixing because that takes more time and effort than I care to put in. 

More updates to come in the near future. Life happens, death happens, you reel it in, you take a breath, and you keep on keepin’ on.